I have not gone out on a date since March 7th. Last weekend, plans changed and was a disappointment. I don't masturbate so I broke quarantine last night and it was worth the wait.
I use a red silk scarf. It is soft. comfortable to wear and would compliment her beautiful lingerie. After she is bound and blindfolded, you can touch her body with various things, maybe a feather or maybe a cold chain. She cannot see and the sense of touch is enhanced. I like to end up with the violet wand, a spark of static electricity on the nipples and other places. So many wonderful things to please her.